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Sex and Relationship Tips for the TikTok Generation. (Includes some 18+ Content)

I've launched a brand new podcast! I've been meaning to do this for YEARS as people have always responded well to my audio courses, but I never got around to it. Well, 2020 is the year, so head across to Anchor.fm/rebeccabardess or Spotify  to grab the first three episodes and subscribe.

Frank Advice

Read the paragraph that follows before you click 'play' because it's not for everyone!

Here's the latest episode. It's not for everyone, since it contains some 18+ content, but I am just OVER seeing so much utter BS about both relationships and sex on TikTok. If those of you who are freshly minted adults follow this crap, you'll have horrible sex lives, catch all kinds of diseases, and be generally unfulfilled. I can't let that happen to you.

So, here's the benefit of a couple of decades of relationships, combined with things I have learnt from the THOUSANDS of people I've coached and taught over the years. Plus a bit of third party research. Stay safe on TikTok, and don't believe the hype.

  • You get to set your boundaries.
  • You get to say when (and if) you lose your virginity (this goes to all genders).
  • You deserve to have fulfilling relationships.
  • How to stay safe on TikTok and not fall for sex trade scams and predators.

Looking forward to reading your comments, if you're brave enough to leave them. Otherwise, message me on TikTok or Instagram if you have any questions, and I can answer them anonymously here. 

Stay smart!


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The TikTok Tea on Monetising The Web


At the time of writing, TikTok is up in arms about Charli D'Amelio monetising a meet and greet. Meanwhile, TikTok is an unprofitable platform that could go out of business in a heartbeat if it fails to become profitable.

  • The consumers of the content want everything for free, and will destroy reputations and the quality of life of creators to ensure they get that
  • The creators want to be able to pay the mounting bills that go with things like suddenly needing to hire security when you have a bunch of raving fans who don't respect your need for privacy
  • The app needs to make a profit, while serving consumers who want everything for free
  • The market can replace the app in a heartbeat if it fails to monetise
  • The consumers will blame the app if it fails

Who's right?

Podcaster, Jayson (Buzzfeed star of the Real Time with Jayson podcast) speaks to me about how we got to where we are online in this first part of his interview with me.  

Thanks in advance to everyone who leaves a reaction, comment or both below. 

I appreciate you,



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Sam Andrews Spills the Tea About Sex, TikTok, and the REAL Emily


In this final part of my interview with Sam Andrews, the viral POV TikTok acting phenom, he reveals:

  • How he feels about 'THOT' culture on TikTok
  • Emotional ADHD and teenage brains
  • His thoughts on a potential career in the movie industry


EXCLUSIVE! Finally discover whether or not you are the real Emily

Watch to the very end if you're a true fan of Sam's, because some of what he reveals will blow your mind. 

Leave a comment below. It's the best way to be seen by him. This is a new blog, so you're not competing with the thousands of other people commenting on his TikTok posts here.

Also, let me know in the comments if you've invited your friends here, so I can put you on my list for future prize draws. Those of you who are the OGs of this community will be glad you did got involved so early. I appreciate you! 

Stay creative, 

Rebecca (@TheRebeccaBardess)

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